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“The worst loneliness is not to be comfortable with yourself.” Mark Twain

 

生命中總充斥著美好與不美好,但就是這樣的人生才顯得美好,而旅行也是這樣。

 

還記得當初瞞著家人第一次獨自出國旅行,是去美國。出國一開始的心情是擺脫家裡束縛的快活和喜悅,接著卻是無盡的思親和思鄉。有趣的是,即便如此還是愛上一個人的旅行,連續好幾年,至今自己每年還是都會安排一個人的旅行。

 

一個人旅行,有很多沉澱的時候,有很多與自己獨處對話的時候,當然也有寂寞的時刻。還記得剛開始一個人旅行,身邊總有些朋友會問相似的問題:「你怎麼敢一個人旅行?你不怕危險嗎?你不怕寂寞嗎?」

 

怕,當然我也有害怕的時候。 但因為害怕,就不去做了嗎?但跟朋友或情人一起,就不寂寞嗎?

 

旅行帶給我最棒的地方是什麼?是朋友?是視野?是勇氣?是愛情?

 

呵,這些都不是。就如馬克吐溫所說的:「最嚴重的寂寞,是無法與你自己安然相處。」而這麼多年來一個人的自助旅行,讓我生命最受益良多的部份,就是懂得與自己安然相處,啜飲那份孤寂,看清自己的渺小和宇宙。

 

公主背包客小語:「一個人的旅行,你將學會與自己獨處。」

 

Because life is full of perfect and imperfect, it’s a beautiful life. That's the same way on the journey.

I still remember that it was my first time to travel alone overseas without telling my father. At the beginning of the journey, everything was so fresh for me. I was quite happy that I got rid of my family and I was in my own way. Then I felt homesick during the trip. Even though I’m still addicted to travel alone. I always arrange the traveling alone at least once a year.

You will spend more time alone and talk to yourself when you start to travel alone. Of course! You will feel lonely as well. Some of my friends asked me the similar questions “How can you go traveling alone? Aren’t you scared? Won’t you feel lonely?”

Come on. I was also scared. Should I give up that, because I was scared? Will I never feel lonely when I am with my friends or partner?

What is the best thing about traveling solo? Is it the friends? Is it the international view? Is it the courage?

Ha…It’s like Mark Twain said” The worst loneliness is not to be comfortable with yourself.” After so many years, I traveling alone. The best thing is I know how to be comfortable with myself. I enjoy the lonely. I can see how small and how big I am.

Princess Backpacker Una-“When you travel alone, you will learn how to get along with yourself.”

 

 

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